These are tips from a fat dude for fat dudes. I looked everywhere for something to help a fat brother out but I never did find anything that would even remotely help. That’s why I have chosen to bestow upon you (the reader) the little bit of knowledge and experience I have with being a fat dude trying to pick up chicks. Before we get started with this list there are a few things that you have to know before we get into it, I am not a Casanova type guy that is always looking for the next chick or anything like that, I’m just a regular fat dude that has known a lot of other fat guys that just seem to feel bad for themselves and blame all the wrong things for them being lonely. With that said I think its time to drop some knowledge! (yea, modesty is a problem for me)
Tip #1- Don’t change for anyone
This should go without saying but when it comes to low self esteem it has to be said. Just be yourself, there is a reason the people around you like you. The only time this does not apply is if you are a major, and I mean major, dick. If you walk around as an enormous dick and blame everyone else then you might want to change but other than that just be yourself. If you’re weird then just be weird, if you’re awkward then be awkward, there is gonna be somebody that likes it. Trust me.
The rest of these might seem like someone trying to change you but that is not my intention. Think of it as highlighting your best personality traits and getting rid of roadblocks that you have put in your own way. That being said lets continue…
Tip #2- Have Balls
This one is the most important! If you just do this one and none of the others you will be in a much better place than most shy and awkward people. There is no trick to it, its just having the balls to go up to someone you find attractive and saying, Hi. Some of it is just that simple, life isn’t a romantic comedy where a grand gesture must be made every time or it has to be some weird coincidence. There is a reason good women sometimes end up with crappy people, its because crappy people are too stupid to not have balls. So take a lesson from horrible people and have some balls.
Tip #3- Being Funny Helps… A Lot
Look if you’re a fat dude then odds are you have a pretty developed sense of humor already. Don’t be afraid to let it shine, let it shine, let it shine (sorry that’s a song). I don’t know about you but I have always used humor to deal with all the things in my life and chances are you do too, it’s the only way to stay sane sometimes. So open with a joke, get her laughing with you. Have you ever met a funny person that you didn’t want to hang out with again?
Tip #4- Rejection Is Just Part Of It
Time for a hard dose of reality, Rejection is just part of it. Sorry. Even the best of the best get turned down. Heres how I have always dealt with this. Getting rejected is just like getting punched in the chest, the first time it happens it might knock you off your feet and hurt a lot. The good news is the more it happens the less it matters to you, you might go from the equivalent of a 3rd grader getting punched in the chest to a Pro Fighter getting punched in the chest. They both hurt but the Pro Fighter knows how to shake it off and keep moving. Be a Pro Fighter and learn to shake off the rejection because when its all said and done it’s a numbers game.
That’s all the tips I have for you right now. If there is anything else anyone would like to add just post it in the comments. Now get out there and have fun!